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I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. I like country’s peace, , I like delicious food and comfortable shoes; I like good books and romantic movies. I like the land and the nature, I like people. And, I like to laugh. I always wanted to be a great writer, like Victor Hugo who wrote "Les Miserable", or like Roman Roland who wrote "John Christopher". . I also wanted to be a great psychologist, like William James or Sigmund Freud, who could read people’s mind. Of course, I am nowhere close to these people, yet. I am just someone who does some teaching, some research, and some writing. But my dream is still alive.

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Thursday, May 13, 2010

hai junoon


Yaaro jee bhar ke jee le pal
Lagta hai aaj kal
Daur apna aayega
\Yaaro jo khud pe ho yakeen
Toh zindagi haseen
Tujhe kaall bulayega
Yaaro jee bhar ke jee le pal
Lagta hai aaj kal
Daur apna aayega
Yaaro jo khud pe ho yakeenToh zindagi haseenTujhe kal
bulayega
(Hai junoon oooooonnnnnHai junoon sa jeene mein(Hai junoon sa jeene men
)Hai junoon oooooonnnnnHai junoon sa seene mein
) – 2
Na… nan nan na na naNan nan na na naNan nan na naaaa…
\Kahin jaise koi dhun baje
Raahon mein dekho hai manzil saje saare
Hum hi hum jahan mein har jagah
Sapne Sajane ki humko mili vajeh
Kahin (kahin)
jaise koi (koi)
dhun baje (hoo॥)
Raahon mein dekho hai manzil saje saare
Hum hi (hum hi)
hum jahan mein (harrr) jagah
Sapne Sajane ki humko mili vajeh

Yeh agar jo sach nahiin
To sach bhala hai kyaYaaron !!!!
Apne hisab se
Dil ki kitab pe
Kuch to naya likhoYaaron !
Anjano ki phikar
Na karti yeh umar
Phir kyun bhala daroo
Hai junoon oooooonnnnn
Hai junoon sa jeene mein(Hai junoon sa jeene mein)Hai junoon oooooonnnnn
Hai junoon sa seene meinHai junoon oooooonnnnn
Hai junoon oooooonnnnn

Kabhi jo milenge raaste
Pal mein hi chamkegi hasi purani toh
Kaho kya kahoge phir hame
Kaise chupaoge nami yeh palko ki
Kabhi (kabhi) jo milenge (milenge) raaste
Pal mein hi chamkegi hasi purani toh
Kaho (kaho) kya kahoge (phirrr) hamey
Kaise chupaoge nami yeh palko ki
Yeh bata hai kya huaa
Hua hai kyon bataaa…।Yaroon !!
Jee bhar ke jee le pal
Lagta hai aaj kal
Daur apna aayega
Yaaro jo khud pe ho yakeen
Toh zindagi haseen
Tujhe kal
bulayega
Yaaro Jo khud pe ho yakeen
Toh zindagi haseenTujhe kal bulayega
(Hai junoon oooooonnnnnHai junoon sa jeene mein(Hai junoon sa jeene mein
)Hai junoon oooooonnnnn
Hai junoon sa seene mein ) – 2Hai junoonn…।

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

friends for change

A word's, just a word 'til you mean what you say
And love, isn't love 'til you give it away
we have something to give
Yeah,something to
To make a change
Send it on
On and on
Just one hand can heal another
Be a part
Reach a heart
Just one spark starts a fire
With one little action the chain reaction
Will never stop
Make it strong
Shine a light and send it on
Just Smile (Just Smile)
And the world (And the world)
Will smile along with you..
That small act of love
That’s meant for
Will become two
If we take the chances
That change circumstances
Imagine all we can do
If we
Send it on
On and on
Just one hand can heal another
Be a part
Reach a heart
Just one spark starts a fire
With one little action the chain reaction
Will never stop
Make it strong
Shine a light and send it on (oh send it on)
Send it on..
There's power in all of the choices we make
So I'm starting now there's not a moment to
word's, just a word 'til you mean what you
And love, isn't love 'til you give it away
Send it on (Send it on)
On and on (on and on)
Just one hand can heal another
Be a part (be a part)
Reach a heart
Just one spark starts a fire
With one little action the chain reaction
Will never stop
Make it strong
Shine a light and
Send it on
On and on
Just one hand can heal another
Be a part Reach a heart
Just one spark starts a fire
With one little action the chain reaction
Will help it start
Make it strong
Shine a light and send it on
Shine a light and send it on..
Shine a light and send it on..

Monday, May 3, 2010

friendability

Are you my friend? Should I friend you? Or you me? I have a very large backlog of inquiries on Facebook, MySpace, LinkedIn and all the rest.
Deciding friendability has become a new and necessary social skill. Here is a hierarchy that works for me:
Friend -- Most of the people that Facebook calls "friends" I call Acquaintances. Actual Friend -- Someone whom I've had a meal with, or has visited my home. Real Friend -- Someone who would drive me to the airport at 6 am. True Friend -- Someone who would get me out of jail.
We all have lots of friends, a few real friends and -- if we are lucky -- one or two true friends.
I am delighted to know so many acquaintances. But I only call friends Actual Friends, Real Friends, and True Friends.
Some folks think this approach is too serious and not in the spirit of the social game of Web 2.0. But I think in the long run, making distinctions in friendability will make our social webs stronger.

HOW 2 HELP A FRIEND IN HER DIFFICULT TIME....


If there's anything I can do for you, just let me know." This is a phrase that we all use when someone is going through a rough lime. But here's the catch - most people in the midst of a crisis can't really gather the courage to tell you exactly how they feel. In such a situation how, do you help a friend who is having serious difficulties? How do you open a conversation in a sensitive manner? And what should you avoid saying at all costs? Read on and find out how to help a friend when she needs you the most.Help A Friend Who's Seriously Ill- What you can do: If a friend is ill but mobile, you should take her out to eat every week or two, because sick people often feel isolated. If she's house-bound, bring her some of her favorite dishes, movies, books and music. Don't overstay your visit as she might feel uncomfortable. Acknowledge the illness and ask what the progress is, and then talk about activities of daily living. If she's a close friend, volunteer to do her laundry or help her with house chores that she is unable to do herself. This will help her a lot and take off worries from her mind. Try to be sensitive to her mood swings.- What you can say: Don't blurt out that she looks awful, but don't tell her she looks great if it's clearly not true. Hug the person and tell her that she will get fine soon. Just be sensitive to her feelings and act accordingly. A sick person needs a lot of rest so let her sleep when she wants to.- What to avoid: Never tell your friend, "I know how you feel." The truth is that you don't know how your friend feels, so the best approach is to invite her to tell you. Don't make fun of her appearance.Help A Friend Who's In An Abusive Relationship- What you can do: The most important thing would be to talk to her openly about the situation. If she is open with you then you can help her plan by telling her how she can escape tho situation. If she wants to break the relationship you can help her by telling her how and what she should talk to her partner. If nothing works out and she decides to run away from the relationship, you can get her spare car keys, cash, mobile phone and things she'll need.Understand the fear, pain and the chaos she is going through. Offer to let her call from your house, where she'll be safer and give her privacy while she's on the phone.- What you can say: Privacy is very important in such a situation. Let your friend know that you will not tell anyone about her. if she senses that you're sensitive to her feelings she will tell you all about her situation freely and you will be able to advice her better.- What to avoid: Don't ask her harsh questions like why she doesn't leave her partner. She can only let go of the person when she's ready. So be with her while she makes up her mind.Help a Friend Who's In A Financial Crisis- What you can do: Avoid eating at and going to expensive places. And don't treat her unless it's a special occasion. If you keep paying for it she will feel embarrassed and less empowered. You have to be sensitive to her situation.- What you can say: Talking about money is the last taboo. Never ask a direct question. Get her to open up by discussing your own financial challenges and money problems.- What to avoid: Unless she's a responsible person, who is facing an unexpected short-term crisis don't lend her money. Offer emotional support and help her find a financial counsellor. She will feel better this way.

DOSTI

Yaaron dosti bahi hi haseen hai
Yeh na ho to kya phir
Bolo yeh zindgi hai
Koi to ho raajdaan
Be garaj tera ho yaar
Koi to ho raajdaan
Yaaron mohabbat hi to bandgi hai
Yeh na ho to kya phir
bolo yeh zindgi hai
Koi to dilbar ho yaar
Jisko tujhse ho pyaar
Koi to dilbar ho yaar
Teri har ke buraai pe
daante vo dost
Gam ki ho dhoop to
saaya bane tera vo dost
Naache bhi vo
Teri khushi main
Yaaron dosti bahi hi haseen hai
Yeh na ho to kya phir
Bolo yeh zindgi hai
Koi to ho raajdaan
Be garaj tera ho yaar
Koi to ho raajdaan
Tan mann kar tum pe fida
Mahboob vo
Palkon pe jo rakhe tujhe
Mahboob vo
Jiski vafa tere liye ho
Are Yaaron dosti bahi hi haseen hai
Yeh na ho to kya phir
Bolo yeh zindgi hai
Koi to dilbar ho yaar
Jisko tujhse ho pyaar
Koi to dilbar ho yaar

Sunday, May 2, 2010

my frenz- my lyf

NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM.
When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form......flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship.
Under all this, the pillar of true love stands......and that's our life. Love, not words win arguments...
Send this on to everyone special in your life, even the people who really make you mad sometimes.
Sometimes we expect far too much of the people around us, and because no one can ever live up to those expectations, we are almost always disappointed.
Wouldn't it be better if we just let go, and let people be who they are? Then we'd be able to see them as they are -- with all their beauty and goodness in which we take joy, and with all their faults which we can also see in ourselves.
When we have put someone up on a pedestal, sculpturing them to fit our needs and desires by smoothing out the rough edges and creating new curves here and there, we cannot see the real person underneath our work. All we see is the illusion we have created. That is denying the person's real identity and is disrespectful.
It's much better for our friends and for ourselves if we drop our expectations and illusions, and accept them all just the way they are.
Whether we realize it or not, everyone we know is very special to us.
The most important thing to remember is... Always appreciate the friends that you have.
A fight may come and go very easily, but a friendship could last forever.
The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care.